Be honest.

Do you ever get the feeling that Jesus would never choose to hang out in the places we’ve built for him? Do you ever feel like Jesus’ message of radical love, mercy and forgiveness has been drowned out by the voices of judgment, condemnation, and stagnant ritualistic religion? Do you ever get the sense that the church was never meant to be about helping itself, but about helping the world? Do you ever get the nagging feeling that Jesus never intended the church to be comfortable and controlled, but instead an untamable movement that challenges the way things have always been done? Have you ever longed to be a part of a community that isn’t afraid to experience God in new and creative ways? (Yeah, us too.)

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Mask

All the worlds a stage, and all the men and women merely players; they have their exists and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts. William Shakespeare.

I was at a party the other night with some friends, and casually but sincerely asked a friend of mine how they were doing. This person responded like most of us respond when asked that question
"I'm doin' great, thanks".
"That's awesome." I said.
As I turned away, I faintly heard them softly say, "That's a lie."
Not sure I heard correctly, I asked this person "I'm sorry what did you say?"
"What I just told you was a lie" they said, "I'm not doing great at all."
At that moment I was impressed by this person's frailty, honesty and openness. It's something that is rarely seen.
A reader the other day made a great comment on how we tend to wear different masks around different groups of people; as if our lives consist of playing one role after another. We wear one mask for the boss, another mask at home, another at church, and still another among friends. Most of our lives are spent trying to impress other people; a life long struggle to get people to like us, make ourselves look good, and to hear the applause. (this is what I have struggled with for most of my life)
Jesus' spent most of his ministry life just a few miles from one of the largest cities in the Roman empire; Sepphoris. Now, Sepphoris’ main attraction was a 30 thousand seat theatre that would entertain audiences with talented actors and extravagant Greek plays. The Greek name for a stage actor was Hypocrite. Sound familiar? Jesus uses this word over and over again when describing the religious leaders of his day. Listen to the words of Jesus in the book of Matthew (6) "When you pray, do not be like the Hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men… And when you fast do not look somber as the hypocrites do for they disfigure and exaggerate their faces so that people will admire them." In Jesus’ day some actors would use masks to effectively show the emotion of a character, while other actors would simply "exaggerate" the muscles in their faces so to be seen by a large audience.
It is believed that Jesus is the first person in recorded history to use the word Hypocrite in this way. It's as if Jesus is saying, “Don’t let their actions fool you, they’re only pretending, they’re only playing a part, they’re simply acting to impress an audience.” Can you see why Jesus was hated by the religious leaders of his day? The ones who claimed to have it all together were now de-masked by the words of Jesus. They were finally found out for who they were; imperfect people just like you and me. Jesus is essentially saying we don’t need to try to impress anyone. We don’t have to play a part or jump through religious hoops to be loved by God. As crazy as it sounds, we are unconditionally loved and accepted for who we are.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Babe, I love how you raise the tough questions and force us to look in the mirror. Thanks for your heart for Him...love your babe

the greenroom said...

Thanks Babe! You inspire me everyday!

Robin Whitted said...

Preach it brother! You rock!
Thank you for bringing this up - we all need to be reminded that we don't have to wear masks! We just need to be who we are - REAl! And that's exactly how God loves us - just the way we are!

Anonymous said...

scott, i've been really thinking about acting different around different people, it really is hard to be the same person around everyone. i never noticed that my personality was simply a changing mask. i love reading your ideas and thoughts when we're not together. thank you for listening to God and helping us learn to listen and obey also

Marc Whitted said...

We all need a reminder of what you speak about here. God DOES love us for who we are. Another challenge here is for us to take Jesus' example of unconditional love and be willing to put "our money where our mouths are" and "flesh" it out on a daily basis - be willing to really listen to others.

the greenroom said...

Marc, thanks for bringing up the whole "listening" thing. I find myself talking so much and listening so little. I mean REALLY listening. Not the kind of listening where I wait for the other person to finish their thought so that I can interject my "brilliant" ideas, but the kind of listening that tries to understand where the person is coming from. I’m really working on it.